Love drives ME!

I went on a bike ride today to do my volunteer work in a local Montessori and boy it was a cold morning! I felt my nose condensing and I am not a bit confident to let go of that handle to reach for a kleenex in my pocket! There's no way I am getting to any accident today just because I chose to reach for a kleenex. hahahaah!

I spent about two hours at the Montessori and I did have lots of fun with the kids! I surely felt so alive being around those kids running and screaming here and there like there's no tomorrow. I planned to leave at 11:30 a.m. so I can beat my husband home for lunch but I went to play with the kids at the backyard and totally lost track of the time. I didn't leave until it was about noon and all that was running in my head was how to get home safe and fast!

I haven't been biking for very long and the trail offers lots of work out as it was designed for mountain bikers while I cruised with my cruiser bike. Often, mountain bikers would pass me by and I could feel that stare and wonder in them.. "what the heck is she doing here with that bike?" But I could care less especially when I am trying to get home to spend time with my husband , be able to hold, kiss and serve him =)

I went as fast as I could but I haven't been working out for about a month or so now and my cardio is not very good. I felt my thighs really tired, my heart throbbing and I had to slow down constantly then I think of my husband and I start peddling faster. All I thought of was getting home and seeing my husband! That was surely motivation enough for me because I did get home in less than 30 minutes!

I knew my husband was home already because I saw his car so I knocked at the door. The door swung open and there stood my gorgeous husband! I parked my bike, threw my things on our bed, stripped off my clothes (men, I was so hot from my bike ride that I can't stand one more minute in my layers of clothes!) and sat on my husbands lap. He cradled me like a baby and had me drink some water. When my husband held me, I knew it was worth the panting, sweat, peddling and hurrying... I was no longer tired but a very happy and lucky wife!

I then concluded...

Boy, I am so in love with my husband!

The longer we spend time together, the deeper that love grows! =)

One can never say how much or to what extent you can love somebody, you just know it! You, more than anything and anybody can feel it for yourself and when you do, bless your heart...love more!

I have loved before but nobody treated me like my husband does. He's the gentlest, most loving, caring, thoughtful, respectful and trustful soul I've ever met!

The Saturday Magic!

I love the weekends!

This is like a long awaited time for me to be able to spend time with my husband to hold him, kiss him, sniff him, caress him, hug him, stare at him, adore him, serve him and make him happy all I like! The price? I am the happiest, luckiest wife who ever lived!

It's Saturday morning. My husband spooned me while I lay asleep next to him. I felt his gentle kisses behind my neck and the "oh my GOODness" embrace and it felt really great! I felt loved, special, warm and adored. What a great way to jump start my day! Then I felt the slow rubs and thrusts behind me and I thought to myself "humm.... now what better way to start your day than that?!" I got excited and grabbed my husband's left arm and had him touch me. My excitement grew and before I knew we were up for a really really great start for a Saturday morning =)

I tried opening my eyes in the process but for some reason (I don't know what or why) I had a hard time waking up this morning. Perhaps it's just one of those lazy days or well who wants to get out of bed with what just happened anyway?! hahahhahaah! Then breakfast was up for grabs. My husband asked me what I wanted for breakfast. Pancakes? Waffles? Then that got me up and told him "honey we don't have eggs. I'm sorry I forgot to get some yesterday..." Oh how I felt so irresponsible for being home the whole day, went out for a little while and still forgot to grab some eggs! =( My husband ( in front of his computer) turned, looked at me and said "there's two of us baby. I failed to stop by the grocery store to get some eggs too."

My husband has never blamed me for anything that I can recall. He always tell me that there's always two of us and there's no need to point fingers because we are equally responsible for things. I so love that my husband treats me very well. I really appreciate that he's very mellow and rational about things. We both don't like arguing which brings us to loving communication when we have issues to handle. In contrast to my first husband, he is very controlling and loves to argue! You could never win with a narcissist! Get it, this whole democracy I have and freedom with my second husband is all so new to me!

Meanwhile, I got busy preparing breakfast while my husband made love with his computer. I went to my husband to deliver breakfast and oh he started playing Magic (the gathering) already. For those who asks what the heck is Magic the Gathering? you're not alone. I asked myself that same question the about a year or so ago (we weren't married yet). I define it as the geek's version of poker! It's a card game (paper and online version, take your pick) with enchantments, casting spells, manna and some weird creatures. Curious enough? Click on this link http://www.wizards.com/Magic/Multiverse/ and it will take you to discover the Planeswalkers.

Believe it or not I had my husband teach me how to play magic last weekend because I was to that level where I want to know what makes him like this game so much. As partners we owe each other to support and discover what makes us tick (happy or sad).

I know many couples don't appreciate each other or are not very verbal as to letting each other know how they feel toward the other and how much they appreciate each other but I have learned that this is a very very important tool to soothing your partner and making the other perk up by caressing his/her ego =)

Not all weekends are the same for me and my husband. We happen to be lucky enough not to live on a very structured, strictly planned or just tight lifestyle. Don't get me wrong he does work on the weekdays and I do my volunteer work on the other hand but weekends are meant for fun, laughter, relaxation, togetherness and passion (-ate lovemaking)!

Enjoy your weekend!

Welcome to the era of Blogs!

Many years ago, we've known information exchange via telephone, newspaper, television, books and print ads until the dawn of the computer age where the world wide web conquered the world!

Anyway, here we go with blogs - the new world of expression, information dissemination, learning and art among others. Honestly, I have never known myself to be a good writer but somewhere in my dreams I am a very prolific and world renowned writer, aren't we all??!

I have decided just about an hour or two ago that I will start blogging on my married life for two reasons:
1. I have had a terrible first marriage =(
2. I have an awesome 2nd marriage!

I believe in my heart that those two reasons are very very strong motivations for me to get myself out here in the blogging world to be able to share my experiences or rather adventures on being a wife, a partner, a friend, a lover, a fan and a family. My hopes are that I will be able to write enough to entertain you, share views with you, learn in the process, better myself and you and keep you coming back for more.

Have a wonderful day!